MARIAH Carey insists shes a changed woman since marrying hubby Nick Cannon - but she still struggles with her timekeeping Nick says hes had to adjust to married life with Mariah - but one thing he cannot stand is that she is always late. We are always late for everything, he says. That is probably the main thing Ive gotten used to. It feels pretty weird for me. Carey recently insisted she tries her best not be a jerk. I try not to be a jerk. I really do, she said. I try to be nice and cordial. Ive seen the real extreme diva behavior and I dont think thats who I am. I think I have mannerisms and that whole thing... But even before I had any type of fame I was like this. Seriously. They [the media] said I wouldnt come into a hotel room unless there were petals on the floor. Im like, do you really think at 3am I give a shit what Im walking on? - SS